The 93 days are not for doing the caring yourself. Used that way they run out. They are designed as time to build an arrangement that lets you keep working.
Two separate entitlements
| Family care leave | Family care days | |
|---|---|---|
| Length | 93 days in total per family member | 5 days a year (10 for two or more) |
| Splitting | Up to three separate periods | Can be taken by the hour |
| Pay | 67% of wages from employment insurance | Depends on the employer's rules |
| Suited to | A block of time to set things up | Hospital visits, paperwork, sudden calls |
It is not one block of 93 days. Three periods are allowed, so it can cover the certification, then finding a place, then the final stretch. Do not spend it all at the start.
Which relatives count
Spouse (including a de facto partner), parents, children, a spouse's parents, grandparents, siblings and grandchildren. Living together is not a condition — a parent living far away counts.
Since April 2025, employers must explain this
To reduce people leaving work to provide care, employers are now required to inform employees individually and confirm their intentions when someone reports that care has become necessary.
If no explanation was given, that is the employer's failure. "We do not have that here" is not an answer: the entitlement comes from national law and applies whether or not it appears in the company rules.
Where the paperwork goes
- Requesting leave — to the employer, normally two weeks before the intended start
- The benefit payment — to Hello Work, usually filed by the employer
What to do with the 93 days
What you are building is an arrangement that works without you. In order:
- Talk to a community support centre — free
- Apply for a care-level certification — about 30 days for a decision
- Build a care plan with a care manager
- Start the services, and test whether things hold when you step back
The fourth matters most. Doing everything yourself during the leave means it collapses the day you return. Use the leave to practise handing over.